http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/ Because Whatever Doesn't Work Here Anymore Mon, 13 May 2013 23:42:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10406 ellen.lubin.sherman Thu, 14 Jun 2012 17:27:43 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10406 Dear Andrea: Do you remember when Elaine on “Seinfeld” changed phone numbers and got an area code that wasn’t snazzy enough? It’s crazy how we define ourselves. They teach us everything in school except character. Most appreciatively, E.

]]> http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10405 ellen.lubin.sherman Thu, 14 Jun 2012 17:25:53 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10405 Dear Editrix: I took their rejection well. I’ve been rejected before — it’s good for the ego strength and that’s not available at the gym. Yours 4-ever, E.

]]> http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10404 ellen.lubin.sherman Thu, 14 Jun 2012 17:24:13 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10404 Dear Melodious: Even the link is “undercover.” I’ll try to get it for you so you can bombard them with requests for membership. This should be verrrrrrrry interesting as your zip code is terribly posh. Your pal, E.

]]> http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10402 ellen.lubin.sherman Thu, 14 Jun 2012 17:21:40 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10402 Dear Jennifer: It’s sad that people need to stay “in their circle” when there are so many marvelous people who are original and phenomenal. Staying open is what makes someone fabulous. I’m glad you are struggling with this as it’s worth the struggle. Affectionately, E.

]]> http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10394 Jennifer Thu, 14 Jun 2012 14:04:14 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10394 I love the metaphor; the use of technological terms really does fit here. Like technology, which proceeds at breakneck speed, there are those who are lagging behind — some call them dinosaurs, others call them the blissfully ignorant. Sometimes I think the universe provides these people/situations to make sure we are serious about our own evolution — why do I say that? Because I am an astute observer of how things happen, how they actually unfold. All of these experiences, things, people, places need to be released as quickly as possible — it really is about bandwidth, range, and making room for one’s noble place in the cosmos. My own personal struggle has more to do with cleaving to my deepest instincts, trusting myself, taking risks, stepping out, and most importantly, taking my ego out of the equation. There are people in the world stuck in their own limitations & negativity — they will try to drag you down or reject you for erroneous reasons. Ever hear of Rob Breszny? I imagine you have — his attitude is: The world is conspiring to shower you with blessings — he calls it pronoia – the antidote to paranoia. I keep the word transmutation on my cell phone to remind me that I must transmute everything into something finer.

]]> http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10383 melodius Thu, 14 Jun 2012 12:24:57 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10383 Share the link, I want to check this out!

]]> http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10381 Editrix Thu, 14 Jun 2012 11:43:19 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10381 Who needs ‘em?

]]> http://essentialsoffabulous.com/blog/the-tiny-bandwidth-club/#comment-10377 Andrea Thu, 14 Jun 2012 10:01:25 +0000 http://essentialsoffabulous.com/?p=4452#comment-10377 Silly girls! Your wrong zip code is their greatest loss. xx

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