It is not easy to be unfailingly charming. Or fun to be with. The discipline of being delightful at all times may seem impossible. It’s not.
No one feels upbeat and buoyant all of the time but you should make an effort. How hard is it to be lively and energetic? It doesn’t take all that much but you must force yourself to be positive.
An optimistic attitude is a gift to others. And it’s a gift to yourself. You’ll have a stellar reputation. People will seek out your company. Dermatologists may dissuade you from getting Botox because who needs it when you’re already fetching. Maybe you’ll remarry. Or get married. Or date.
I know it’s hard to be enchanting on a daily basis but what is the alternative?
(There is no alternative.)